Whether my hair is relaxed, natural, braided, or just a different style than the day before, I get so many comments from my co-workers (all non-black). Whenever I go in the day of a new style, I'm like, "okay, here we go..." Here are some of my favorite comments- some inappropriate and flat out rude:
What did you do to your hair?!
Is it yours?
What is it made of?
How long did it take? (braids/twists)
Can you wash it?
Did you do it yourself?
Who did it?
How do you sleep?
How long will it last?
Is this style easier than the last one?
It really fits your face!
It looks so silky!
How much did it cost?
Did you cut your hair?
Can you comb it?
I wish I could do that with my hair!
You look like Beyonce/Lauryn Hill/Halle Berry/Melissa Harris Perry/some other black celebrity I look nothing like!
I love your weave! (when it's not a weave)
You remind me of my Barbie head I had as a child with all of your hairstyles!
Do you unbraid them at night and re-braid every morning? (braids)
I like this style so much better than the last one.
You can do so much with our hair.
Can I touch it?
I've dealt with these questions and comments for years, so at this point, nothing these mofos say surprise me. I sometimes make up answers, like "yes, I re-braid them every day," or "it only took an hour for me to put all these braids in."
Am I missing any crazy/funny/rude/stupid comments??
Friday, September 13, 2013
Tuesday, September 10, 2013
Braids Out
I took my micro braids out last Friday night after having them in for 10 weeks. My goal was 6 weeks, so I'm proud of myself for making it to 10. It took me about 4 1/2 hours to take my braids out. I tried to take them out using the method here, but it didn't quite work for me. The video shows how you can soak your hair with water and conditioner and the braids will slide out. Well, the women who braided my hair were extremely good at their jobs, because my braids did NOT slide out! They were almost cornrowed at the root, so no amount of conditioner was going to make it easy for the braids to just slide out. I did still wet and load my hair with conditioner. I feel like it made it easier to take the braids out, and I got a good pre-poo conditioning treatment from it. The water and conditioner also made it so much easier to de-tangle.
The next morning, I went to the salon to get my hair done. I hadn't been to a salon since I did my big chop last June! I like doing my own hair, but I also like having someone else do it, especially if I trust them and they get me out in a reasonable time. I went to my cousin at a salon near my house. She did my hair once right before I went natural, and I loved how it came out. She washed and deep conditioned my hair, then she blow dried it a little and put me under the dryer for it to dry completely. She then pressed my hair (with the hot comb) and curled it using KeraCare Curling Wax. She trimmed about an inch off. My ends were really bad- I trimmed my ends myself a couple of times over the past year, but I'm sure I didn't do the best job!
The next morning, I went to the salon to get my hair done. I hadn't been to a salon since I did my big chop last June! I like doing my own hair, but I also like having someone else do it, especially if I trust them and they get me out in a reasonable time. I went to my cousin at a salon near my house. She did my hair once right before I went natural, and I loved how it came out. She washed and deep conditioned my hair, then she blow dried it a little and put me under the dryer for it to dry completely. She then pressed my hair (with the hot comb) and curled it using KeraCare Curling Wax. She trimmed about an inch off. My ends were really bad- I trimmed my ends myself a couple of times over the past year, but I'm sure I didn't do the best job!
These pictures were taken 2-3 days later. It looked so much better the day I left the salon, but I still like it now. I am really happy with the thickness and length...and moisture! For the past year, I have been frustrated with how dry my hair felt, and now it's actually holding moisture. I don't know how much I'm going to wear my hair straight, but it's a nice change, especially now that the weather is not so humid.
Even thought it's only been about 15 months since I've dealt with straight hair, I feel like I'm learning how to manage it! I've been wearing twists and braids for the past 4 months, and I could be lazy about not wearing a shower cap in the shower, or not putting a silk scarf on at night. Not with this style! The first night, I just wrapped my hair, but it came out too flat. So now I'm putting a few satin rollers and pin curls in it to give it a little body and curl, which I like. I've also been applying a few drops of avocado oil in my hair at night to seal in the moisture. I'm hoping this style will last a couple of weeks, and then I think I want to play with my natural texture again...
Thursday, August 15, 2013
Eyelash Extensions
I got eyelash extensions, and I love them! I can't believe it's taken me so long to have this done- the right way. My eyelashes are super short. My 3 year old son has longer eyelashes than me! Here are how my lashes look naturally:
You can barely see them, right??
I feel like I have to wear mascara every day. For years, I have experimented with different mascaras to make my lashes look longer and fuller. I can get the fullness, but not the length. Most mascaras run...or rather, I touch my eyes and/or my eyes water, so I get the raccoon look at the end of most days.
I also use false lash strips sometimes, which are good for going out sometimes, but I can't apply them every day. Ain't nobody got time for that! It's also hard for me to get all the glue off my lashes and eyelids.
I went to a place a couple of years ago to get lash extensions and the woman did not do a good job. I thought my lashes looked a little ridiculous. They were clumpy and so fake-looking. They burned like crazy when she was applying them, and one eye looked different than the other. I said I wouldn't try them again unless I could afford to go to a true professional. I have a friend who does them at an upscale salon, but her prices start at $300! She primarily uses the mink lashes.
It took her about 30 minutes to apply them and I think these look very natural. In fact, only a couple people have even noticed that I got lashes. The important thing is that I see the difference and like them. I feel like they really open my eyes. I fall in love with them every time I look in a mirror. The best part is that I don't feel like I need to wear any mascara!
They should last 2-3 weeks, and then I could either get them filled back in, or a whole new set. Oneka said that everyone's lash cycle is different, so I just have to see how much my natural lashes shed and how much my daily activities might affect them. I don't rub my eyes much, and I don't have allergies, so I'm hoping to keep them in for about 3 weeks at a time. I've had a few lashes come off, but it's not noticeable. I can still wear eye make-up (I haven't), but I have to use an oil-free remover to take them off. I can go swimming, take a shower, and exercise with them on with no problem. I'm definitely going to get them again!
You can barely see them, right??
I feel like I have to wear mascara every day. For years, I have experimented with different mascaras to make my lashes look longer and fuller. I can get the fullness, but not the length. Most mascaras run...or rather, I touch my eyes and/or my eyes water, so I get the raccoon look at the end of most days.
I also use false lash strips sometimes, which are good for going out sometimes, but I can't apply them every day. Ain't nobody got time for that! It's also hard for me to get all the glue off my lashes and eyelids.
I went to a place a couple of years ago to get lash extensions and the woman did not do a good job. I thought my lashes looked a little ridiculous. They were clumpy and so fake-looking. They burned like crazy when she was applying them, and one eye looked different than the other. I said I wouldn't try them again unless I could afford to go to a true professional. I have a friend who does them at an upscale salon, but her prices start at $300! She primarily uses the mink lashes.
My other friend, Oneka, also did them at the same upscale salon, but now does them at another salon where she charges less than $50 for them. I talked to her about how I wanted them to look natural and she promised she could hook me up. I got the individual silk lash extensions almost two weeks ago and I love the results:
They should last 2-3 weeks, and then I could either get them filled back in, or a whole new set. Oneka said that everyone's lash cycle is different, so I just have to see how much my natural lashes shed and how much my daily activities might affect them. I don't rub my eyes much, and I don't have allergies, so I'm hoping to keep them in for about 3 weeks at a time. I've had a few lashes come off, but it's not noticeable. I can still wear eye make-up (I haven't), but I have to use an oil-free remover to take them off. I can go swimming, take a shower, and exercise with them on with no problem. I'm definitely going to get them again!
Monday, August 5, 2013
Tiffanita's Skin Summer Must-Haves
It's hard to believe that it's already August, but summer isn't over yet! Here are some of my favorite inexpensive summer skin products:
I love this soap year-round, but it does a little something more for me in the summer. It's light, but effective, and the peppermint smell is a great wake-me-up in the morning. I love how it tingles my skin and opens my head. My bathroom feels like a spa! My whole family uses it. I dilute it with water to make a shampoo for me and my son. My boyfriend likes to use it after a workout. It's also a good mosquito repellent, so I use it before going to a cookout. Sometimes I even dilute it for light cleaning around the house. It's made of organic oils, which is a plus. I usually buy a 32 oz bottle so we don't run out too quickly!
32 oz bottle is about $16 and can be found at houseofbeautyworld.com
Coconut Oil is great for the skin! It's one of the few oils that penetrate and moisturize the skin. I use it to boost my lotions. I mix a few drops with a couple of squirts of lotion and then apply to my skin to make my skin silky smooth. I also apply some coconut oil to my hands and feet at night to keep my cuticles and heels moist all day. I find my coconut oil at my local grocery store for under $10.
Since I don't like wearing a lot of make-up when it's hot, applying false eyelashes is my way of enhancing my eyes and face without wearing a lot of product on my face. My favorite lashes are the Ardell Fashion Lashes in the 53 or 131 size. My natural eyelashes are pretty short, so I just want to extend my lashes a little, not look like I have fans on my eyes! For $3-5 per pair, it's a great way to brighten up my face.
For most areas on my body, I prefer depilatory creams over waxing. I experience less irritation and fewer hair bumps. I like the Surgi Cream Hair Remover for my face, and Nair for my underarms and bikini area.
I shouldn't have to stress how important sunscreen is, but maybe I do. Many black people think we don't need sunscreen, but WE DO! Sunscreen is a non-negotiable item for me at the beach because I burn easily, but it's also important to wear it every day. It's amazing how much exposure we have to the sun by just riding in a car. I make sure I wear at least a 30 SPF, and I reapply often. I also make sure to buy new sunscreen every summer so that I know it's still effective.
This gentle facial scrub is perfect in the summer. I use this scrub to exfoliate and to soothe my skin after being in the sun all day. I find that I get less skin peeling when I use this.
You can find it here for less than $4.
I was lucky enough to get a good tan at the beginning of the summer. I love being tanned, but that usually means that powders and foundations and blushes don't look the same on me as they do when I'm not tanned. I love using bronzers to give my tanned face and neck an extra glow. One of my favorites is the Milani Baked Bronzer for about $8. I apply it with a powder brush on my face and neck, highlighting my cheeks and forehead. Bling!
Lips don't get as dry in the summer, but I still need a good lip balm to keep my lips moist and kissable. I use a lot of different lip balms, but my favorite these past few months has been the Eos Lip Balm in Summer Fruit. It's 95% organic, and petrolatum and paraben free. It costs about $3 and can be found in drug stores.
Dr. Bronners Peppermint Pure Castille Liquid Soap
32 oz bottle is about $16 and can be found at houseofbeautyworld.com
Coconut Oil
Coconut Oil is great for the skin! It's one of the few oils that penetrate and moisturize the skin. I use it to boost my lotions. I mix a few drops with a couple of squirts of lotion and then apply to my skin to make my skin silky smooth. I also apply some coconut oil to my hands and feet at night to keep my cuticles and heels moist all day. I find my coconut oil at my local grocery store for under $10.
Eyelashes
Since I don't like wearing a lot of make-up when it's hot, applying false eyelashes is my way of enhancing my eyes and face without wearing a lot of product on my face. My favorite lashes are the Ardell Fashion Lashes in the 53 or 131 size. My natural eyelashes are pretty short, so I just want to extend my lashes a little, not look like I have fans on my eyes! For $3-5 per pair, it's a great way to brighten up my face.
Depilatory Cream
For most areas on my body, I prefer depilatory creams over waxing. I experience less irritation and fewer hair bumps. I like the Surgi Cream Hair Remover for my face, and Nair for my underarms and bikini area.
Sunscreen
I shouldn't have to stress how important sunscreen is, but maybe I do. Many black people think we don't need sunscreen, but WE DO! Sunscreen is a non-negotiable item for me at the beach because I burn easily, but it's also important to wear it every day. It's amazing how much exposure we have to the sun by just riding in a car. I make sure I wear at least a 30 SPF, and I reapply often. I also make sure to buy new sunscreen every summer so that I know it's still effective.
Queen Helene Aloe Vera Natural Facial Scrub
This gentle facial scrub is perfect in the summer. I use this scrub to exfoliate and to soothe my skin after being in the sun all day. I find that I get less skin peeling when I use this.
You can find it here for less than $4.
Bronzer
I was lucky enough to get a good tan at the beginning of the summer. I love being tanned, but that usually means that powders and foundations and blushes don't look the same on me as they do when I'm not tanned. I love using bronzers to give my tanned face and neck an extra glow. One of my favorites is the Milani Baked Bronzer for about $8. I apply it with a powder brush on my face and neck, highlighting my cheeks and forehead. Bling!
Lip Balm
Lips don't get as dry in the summer, but I still need a good lip balm to keep my lips moist and kissable. I use a lot of different lip balms, but my favorite these past few months has been the Eos Lip Balm in Summer Fruit. It's 95% organic, and petrolatum and paraben free. It costs about $3 and can be found in drug stores.
Tuesday, July 30, 2013
Braids
Right after I took my twists out, I got braids. This has been great for the summer so far. I went to the same African braiding shop I got my twists done, and was again very happy with the level of service I received. When she was finished braiding, she braided the ends and dipped them in boiling water to get the wavy effect. I've had them in for a little over 4 weeks, and I haven't done had to re-set them. I was thinking I would try to curl them, but I haven't felt like it. I've pretty much been wearing them in a ponytail or a bun for the past month.
I still use my moisturizing spray every day or every other day, and I've put a rinse in the front for my gray edges once. I tried using mascara to cover the grays....it worked, but left my hair feeling a little hard. I've washed my scalp once, which was pretty easy. I didn't wash my scalp while my twists were in, but now it's hot and I've been working out, so I really wanted to get my scalp cleaned. I used shampoo in the shower, and I washed my scalp while my hair was in a loose bun so that I did not get the length of the hair wet.
I took the extra hair home in case I want to go back to touch up the edges, but I don't think I'll have to. Two braids have come out already, but I can't figure out where they came from! They definitely didn't come from my edges, which is good.
I'm excited to see my progress when I take the braids out in September, but I'm also enjoying having an easy summer with my hair!
I still use my moisturizing spray every day or every other day, and I've put a rinse in the front for my gray edges once. I tried using mascara to cover the grays....it worked, but left my hair feeling a little hard. I've washed my scalp once, which was pretty easy. I didn't wash my scalp while my twists were in, but now it's hot and I've been working out, so I really wanted to get my scalp cleaned. I used shampoo in the shower, and I washed my scalp while my hair was in a loose bun so that I did not get the length of the hair wet.
I took the extra hair home in case I want to go back to touch up the edges, but I don't think I'll have to. Two braids have come out already, but I can't figure out where they came from! They definitely didn't come from my edges, which is good.
I'm excited to see my progress when I take the braids out in September, but I'm also enjoying having an easy summer with my hair!
Tuesday, June 25, 2013
DIY Moisturizer
I took one twist out today and I was extremely happy about how moist my hair is! I'm thinking that I will have to create a whole new hair regimen. Maybe my hair is getting back to normal from being so dry for the past year. I think consistent swimming last year and the henna treatments really dried my hair out, so I'm hoping that my hair is on the road to recovery.
So how did I get this moist hair? It's so simple. In the past 8 weeks, I've only washed my scalp twice. Every morning I spray my scalp and roots with a mixture of water, jojoba oil, castor oil and Giovanni Direct Leave-In Conditioner. I never measure, but it's about 3 parts water, 1 part conditioner and .5 parts oil. My scalp hasn't itched at all. Even my edges are doing well, and I haven't done much but brush them down a little. I haven't been sleeping with a satin scarf because it's too hot, and it's uncomfortable with all of these twists. I do sleep on a satin pillowcase, though.
I'm hoping that when I do go back to wearing my hair out, my hair will respond just as well to the spray!
Friday, May 17, 2013
Kinky Twists
I went to an African hair braiding shop my girlfriend referred me to. They were really nice and professional. I was glad that they had the hair there and gave me advice on the color and size of my twists. The main woman twisting my hair (most of the time, two women worked on me) was nice enough to ask me if I wanted her to do my edges and when she did, had me hold the root so that she didn't pull my hair as she twisted. She braided the roots, and twisted the rest. It took about 4 hours, but I'm sure it would have taken longer if there was only one person doing my hair. Whenever I've had my hair braided in the past, I experienced a bad headache for the first couple of days. This time, no pain! I was so happy the twists weren't too tight. I'm too old for that, hahaha!
For maintenance, I spray my roots every morning with a mixture of water, oil, and conditioner. So far, my scalp hasn't itched or flaked, and my natural hair feels moist and soft. I applied a semi permanent color to my edges last weekend to cover up the grays, and it was pretty easy and fast.
My goal is to keep them in for 6-8 weeks. I hope that I'll have a better attitude and improved regimen then. If not, I'll just get it done again and keep them in through the summer.
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